I I am grateful that I have found a 'friend'. It's unfortunate enough that we are in the same painful situation, but it makes us understand each other and vent out our frustrations and devastation. Speaking of comfort just when you need it. We honestly feel better and more confident amidst all these. I really learned a lot. It really helps to see different opinions and advices from courageous people. Amidst this tribulation, I still find some humor in it I could smile, even after all is over, it is not that it is not bad enough, but constructive words are really encouraging, like a fire that gives light when it is dark enough, and fire to make us go forward boldly, for we know we are not guilty. Speak some positive and encouraging words to your mate today, as you face and resolve issues honestly, not ignore and make them worse.